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CHRISTYandJOSHUA
Christy and Joshua sitting on the cliff edge looking at the view

Saturday, 20 February 2027

The day

from I do to goodnight

Where to be, when to be there, and what to put on.

Order of events

The shape of it

Friday is an optional extra for anyone already in town. Saturday is the main event.

Friday 19 February

  1. Golf

    A fun round at St Francis Links for anyone who fancies it. Joshua is organising — tick the box on your RSVP and he'll be in touch with a tee time.

Saturday 20 February

  1. 14:30 for 15:00

    Guests arrive

    Park in the farm lot and follow the signs. There'll be something cold waiting for you. Please be seated by 15:20.

  2. 15:30

    Ceremony

    Outside, under the umbrellas — shaded, and out of the afternoon sun.

  3. Canapés & photographs

    Drinks and snacks out on the lawn while we slip away for photos. Wander the gardens.

  4. Speeches & first dance

    Short speeches, we promise. Then the first dance.

  5. Dinner

    Served in the barn.

  6. Dancing

    The dance floor opens and stays open. This is the bit you requested a song for.

  7. After party at the Plaas Kombuis

    A second space on the same farm, a minute's walk away. Nothing to arrange and nowhere to drive to — just follow everyone else.

Christy and Joshua walking hand in hand across the plateau towards the waiting helicopter
Foreheads together in the late afternoon light

What to wear

Black tie

strictly, please

The gentlemen
A black suit with a white shirt. Black tie or bow tie.
The ladies
A floor-length gown in any colour from our palette.
  • February in the Eastern Cape is hot in the afternoon (high 20s °C) and mild by midnight. A wrap or jacket for later is worth packing.
  • The ceremony is shaded under umbrellas, but canapés afterwards are out on the lawn.

For the ladies

Our colour palette

Any of these will look wonderful, and wonderful together. Pick whichever one you like.

  • Blush
  • Soft pink
  • Peach
  • Pink rose
  • Lilac
  • Lavender
  • Misty purple
  • Plum
  • Sage
  • Eucalyptus
  • Pistachio
  • Olive
  • Moss
  • Butter yellow
  • Pastel yellow
  • Golden yellow
  • Terracotta
  • Peachy coral
  • Rosewood
  • Taupe pink

Please avoid

  • White
  • Beige
  • Chocolate brown

Where it happens

The Rose Barn

Christy and Joshua close together, laughing, the Drakensberg soft behind them

A restored barn on a working rose and lavender farm, ten minutes from the sea. Whitewashed stone, open beams, chandeliers strung above long tables, and rolling green hills in every direction. The ceremony is outside under the umbrellas; dinner and dancing move inside.

The address

The Rose BarnJeffreys Bay, Eastern CapeSouth Africa

One more thing

We need to know if you’re coming by 16 October 2026. It takes about two minutes.